It's all about choices.  You have to make time for things that are important, and relationships are one of the most important things there can be.  You may even have to learn to say no to some of the other obligations that you have once in a while.

Relationships are important, whether they be dating relationships, marriages, or friendships.  Jobs come and go, material possessions come and go, but meaningful relationships last forever.  So, make time to nurture your relationships.  They are important.

Making time can be hard to do sometimes.  There are only so many hours in the day.  That's why you may have to learn to say no to some of your other obligations.  If you have something scheduled every day for everyone else in your life (and not yourself), maybe it's time to start cutting some of them back.  I'm not saying you should drop everything and focus solely on your relationships, but I'm sure you could find some things that could be eliminated in your busy schedule.

Remember, relationships are important.  You have to make time to spend with that other person, for talking, sharing, activities, sex, whatever is lacking from the realationship that will help it grow. 

This article is an excerpt from the book Missing Pieces: 21 Secrets of a Successful Relationship by Will Irvin, now available from Lulu.com in paperback, hardcover, and for download.